[hooks] add non-streaming (non-stdin style) shell-only PreToolUse support (#15211)

- add `PreToolUse` hook for bash-like tool execution only at first
- block shell execution before dispatch with deny-only hook behavior
- introduces common.rs matcher framework for matching when hooks are run

example run:

```
› run three parallel echo commands, and the second one should echo "[block-pre-tool-use]" as a test


• Running the three echo commands in parallel now and I’ll report the output directly.

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

PreToolUse hook (completed)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo inspected Bash: echo "first parallel echo"
  
PreToolUse hook (blocked)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo blocked a Bash command on purpose.
  feedback: PreToolUse demo blocked the command. Remove [block-pre-tool-use] to continue.

PreToolUse hook (completed)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo inspected Bash: echo "third parallel echo"

• Ran echo "first parallel echo"
  └ first parallel echo

• Ran echo "third parallel echo"
  └ third parallel echo

• Three little waves went out in parallel.

  1. printed first parallel echo
  2. was blocked before execution because it contained the exact test string [block-pre-tool-use]
  3. printed third parallel echo

  There was also an unrelated macOS defaults warning around the successful commands, but the echoes
  themselves worked fine. If you want, I can rerun the second one with a slightly modified string so
  it passes cleanly.
```

codex-rs/app-server-protocol/schema/json/codex_app_server_protocol.schemas.json

@@ -7994,6 +7994,7 @@
       },
       "HookEventName": {
         "enum": [
+          "preToolUse",
           "sessionStart",
           "userPromptSubmit",
           "stop"