[hooks] add non-streaming (non-stdin style) shell-only PreToolUse support (#15211)

- add `PreToolUse` hook for bash-like tool execution only at first
- block shell execution before dispatch with deny-only hook behavior
- introduces common.rs matcher framework for matching when hooks are run

example run:

```
› run three parallel echo commands, and the second one should echo "[block-pre-tool-use]" as a test


• Running the three echo commands in parallel now and I’ll report the output directly.

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

PreToolUse hook (completed)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo inspected Bash: echo "first parallel echo"
  
PreToolUse hook (blocked)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo blocked a Bash command on purpose.
  feedback: PreToolUse demo blocked the command. Remove [block-pre-tool-use] to continue.

PreToolUse hook (completed)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo inspected Bash: echo "third parallel echo"

• Ran echo "first parallel echo"
  └ first parallel echo

• Ran echo "third parallel echo"
  └ third parallel echo

• Three little waves went out in parallel.

  1. printed first parallel echo
  2. was blocked before execution because it contained the exact test string [block-pre-tool-use]
  3. printed third parallel echo

  There was also an unrelated macOS defaults warning around the successful commands, but the echoes
  themselves worked fine. If you want, I can rerun the second one with a slightly modified string so
  it passes cleanly.
```

codex-rs/core/tests/suite/otel.rs

@@ -973,6 +973,7 @@ async fn handle_response_item_records_tool_result_for_local_shell_call() {
                 .features
                 .disable(Feature::GhostCommit)
                 .expect("test config should allow feature update");
+            config.permissions.approval_policy = Constrained::allow_any(AskForApproval::Never);
         })
         .build(&server)
         .await
@@ -989,7 +990,7 @@ async fn handle_response_item_records_tool_result_for_local_shell_call() {
         .await
         .unwrap();
 
-    wait_for_event(&codex, |ev| matches!(ev, EventMsg::TokenCount(_))).await;
+    wait_for_event(&codex, |ev| matches!(ev, EventMsg::TurnComplete(_))).await;
 
     logs_assert(|lines: &[&str]| {
         let line = lines