[hooks] add non-streaming (non-stdin style) shell-only PreToolUse support (#15211)

- add `PreToolUse` hook for bash-like tool execution only at first
- block shell execution before dispatch with deny-only hook behavior
- introduces common.rs matcher framework for matching when hooks are run

example run:

```
› run three parallel echo commands, and the second one should echo "[block-pre-tool-use]" as a test


• Running the three echo commands in parallel now and I’ll report the output directly.

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

• Running PreToolUse hook: name for demo pre tool use hook

PreToolUse hook (completed)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo inspected Bash: echo "first parallel echo"
  
PreToolUse hook (blocked)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo blocked a Bash command on purpose.
  feedback: PreToolUse demo blocked the command. Remove [block-pre-tool-use] to continue.

PreToolUse hook (completed)
  warning: wizard-tower PreToolUse demo inspected Bash: echo "third parallel echo"

• Ran echo "first parallel echo"
  └ first parallel echo

• Ran echo "third parallel echo"
  └ third parallel echo

• Three little waves went out in parallel.

  1. printed first parallel echo
  2. was blocked before execution because it contained the exact test string [block-pre-tool-use]
  3. printed third parallel echo

  There was also an unrelated macOS defaults warning around the successful commands, but the echoes
  themselves worked fine. If you want, I can rerun the second one with a slightly modified string so
  it passes cleanly.
```

codex-rs/hooks/schema/generated/pre-tool-use.command.output.schema.json

@@ -0,0 +1,101 @@
+{
+  "$schema": "http://json-schema.org/draft-07/schema#",
+  "additionalProperties": false,
+  "definitions": {
+    "HookEventNameWire": {
+      "enum": [
+        "PreToolUse",
+        "SessionStart",
+        "UserPromptSubmit",
+        "Stop"
+      ],
+      "type": "string"
+    },
+    "PreToolUseDecisionWire": {
+      "enum": [
+        "approve",
+        "block"
+      ],
+      "type": "string"
+    },
+    "PreToolUseHookSpecificOutputWire": {
+      "additionalProperties": false,
+      "properties": {
+        "additionalContext": {
+          "default": null,
+          "type": "string"
+        },
+        "hookEventName": {
+          "$ref": "#/definitions/HookEventNameWire"
+        },
+        "permissionDecision": {
+          "allOf": [
+            {
+              "$ref": "#/definitions/PreToolUsePermissionDecisionWire"
+            }
+          ],
+          "default": null
+        },
+        "permissionDecisionReason": {
+          "default": null,
+          "type": "string"
+        },
+        "updatedInput": {
+          "default": null
+        }
+      },
+      "required": [
+        "hookEventName"
+      ],
+      "type": "object"
+    },
+    "PreToolUsePermissionDecisionWire": {
+      "enum": [
+        "allow",
+        "deny",
+        "ask"
+      ],
+      "type": "string"
+    }
+  },
+  "properties": {
+    "continue": {
+      "default": true,
+      "type": "boolean"
+    },
+    "decision": {
+      "allOf": [
+        {
+          "$ref": "#/definitions/PreToolUseDecisionWire"
+        }
+      ],
+      "default": null
+    },
+    "hookSpecificOutput": {
+      "allOf": [
+        {
+          "$ref": "#/definitions/PreToolUseHookSpecificOutputWire"
+        }
+      ],
+      "default": null
+    },
+    "reason": {
+      "default": null,
+      "type": "string"
+    },
+    "stopReason": {
+      "default": null,
+      "type": "string"
+    },
+    "suppressOutput": {
+      "default": false,
+      "type": "boolean"
+    },
+    "systemMessage": {
+      "default": null,
+      "type": "string"
+    }
+  },
+  "title": "pre-tool-use.command.output",
+  "type": "object"
+}