[bazel] Improve runfiles handling (#10098)

we can't use runfiles directory on Windows due to path lengths, so swap
to manifest strategy. Parsing the manifest is a bit complex and the
format is changing in Bazel upstream, so pull in the official Rust
library (via a small hack to make it importable...) and cleanup all the
associated logic to work cleanly in both bazel and cargo without extra
confusion

MODULE.bazel

@@ -27,6 +27,8 @@ register_toolchains(
     "@toolchains_llvm_bootstrapped//toolchain:all",
 )
 
+# Needed to disable xcode...
+bazel_dep(name = "apple_support", version = "2.1.0")
 bazel_dep(name = "rules_cc", version = "0.2.16")
 bazel_dep(name = "rules_platform", version = "0.1.0")
 bazel_dep(name = "rules_rust", version = "0.68.1")
@@ -90,6 +92,11 @@ crate.annotation(
 
 inject_repo(crate, "openssl")
 
+crate.annotation(
+    crate = "runfiles",
+    workspace_cargo_toml = "rust/runfiles/Cargo.toml",
+)
+
 # Fix readme inclusions
 crate.annotation(
     crate = "windows-link",